Blood Bought Joy




So, this morning, probably by the time that many of you read this post, by God's grace our little one will be in our arms.  I got to thinking about the last 9 months and what all I’ve been through.  I thought about the endless worry that another miscarriage might happen again.  Every bathroom trip was nerve racking.  I thought about sore legs and tired feet.  I thought about uncomfortable “sleeping.”  I put that in quotes because at some point sleep just failed to happen a lot.  I thought about the pressure and discomfort of a full term baby rolling inside my already cramped belly.  

But, the thing is, I’ve also thought about the joy.  I’ve thought about the amazing feeling of a child growing inside of me.  I thought about the joy of sharing with our family that we would be adding a little one this year.  I thought about the fun I’ve had discussing pregnancy with other moms.  I’ve thought about the joy that is to come when this little one comes into this world.  

Then God brought to my mind the joy and sacrifice it took for me to be a child of his.  The discomfort that Jesus felt in those years, months, weeks, days, and hours leading up to the cross.  The struggle for people to hear the truth.  The weight of the world, literally, on his shoulders. 

Hebrews 12:2 says, “fixing our eyes on Jesus, the pioneer and perfecter of faith. For the joy set before him he endured the cross, scorning its shame, and sat down at the right hand of the throne of God.

As I think about the child that God has given us, I can’t help but see just a glimpse of the joy that Jesus was looking toward.  I have only suffered just the smallest portion of what he suffered, but the joy of just one child being added to our family is worth whatever I had to go through.  

I don’t care what kind of birth experience you have, it’s not easy.  If you deliver naturally, awesome!  That’s hard work that I have no experience with.  But, your body is put through the ringer.  You are exhausted, and there is no time for rest now that the little lady or gentleman has made their entrance.  There are often stitches that need to be sewn, and I’ve been told it’s like you’re sitting on hot coals.   If you have to have a C-section, wonderful!  That isn’t easy either, and that I do know about.  You are laid bare on a table, numb from the navel down, detached from most of the experience.  In a lot of cases you are wheeled off to recovery as your child is walked to the nursery.  It could be upwards of an hour before you see that little one again.  That’s what broke my heart.  I was like Kill Bill in that recovery room.  “Move your big toe.” (You can email me if you feel some kind of way about me watching that movie.  If you’ve never seen it, don’t.)

The point is that this world is a broken place.  That means that bringing life into it is hard and painful.  So, for Jesus to bring the ultimate life into this world that would save us all, was the ultimate pain.  But he did it anyway.  Why?  Because we are his joy!  The thought of having us, his children with him forever was joy enough to endure everything that was set before him.  And, don’t you think for a minute that he didn’t know what was coming.  He was God incarnate.  He knew what he was going to have to suffer for us to be included in the family of God.  And he did it anyway.  You were worth it.  I was worth it.  

As you read this, by the grace of God, I’m holding a new little life, and I am reminded that Jesus has given us new life.  We are blood bought children of the most high King.  Don’t forget that.  Don’t forget that the blood he used to pay the ransom for our sins was poured out willingly because we are his joy.  You are his joy!

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